Thursday 28 April 2011

Jealousy

"jealousy |ˈjeləsē|noun ( pl. -ousies)the state or feeling of being jealous a sharp pang of jealousy resentments and jealousies festered.ORIGIN Middle English : from Old French gelosie, from gelos (seejealous )."In my opinion, it's one of the worst feelings in the world. But when you're the jealous type, there's not much you can do.Jealousy can cause someone to act as if they don't trust you, and it can make them seem obsessive.One minute you feel fine, you feel you can trust someone - yet anything that is said can completely change that; the other person is not even aware. Sometimes, you can't even say you feel this way for fear of someone taking it completely the wrong way, and keeping it all inside makes you feel worse and worse. It could be anything, fear of something being taken away from you, fear of not being 'the favourite', wanting something that you can't have.A lot of people don't seem to understand jealousy - most of the time it is caused by fear, insecurity and lack of confidence. It's hard to ignore, and you may not be able to completely get rid of it, but it is possible for it to fade. You've just got to trust and be happy with what you have.

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